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The Ultimate Lady Blog​

An ongoing series of informational entries

Vendor Special! Limited Time Only!

October 10, 2018

Interested in being a vendor at our upcoming Ultimate Ladies Night event? Vendors have until Friday, October 12, 2018 to lock-in the special price of $25 per event. or CashApp $royalragst

Interested Performers for Upcoming Poetry Slam

October 13, 2018

Interested in being a performer for the upcoming KeepItKinky Poetry Slam? We are looking for open minded, positive, and most of all erotic artists both amateur and experienced.

  • Performers are required to pay a $20 entry fee. or CashApp $royalragst
  • Performances have no time limit..
  • Performers are asked to perform original work only!
  • The winner will be judged by the audience via ballots. Cash prize determined by number of participants.
  • The theme of the Poetry Slam is sexuality and natural beauty.
  • Poetry Slam is open to male and female performers.
  • Performers must be 21 years of age and older.
  • Performers who wish to sell products are required to purchase vendor space. 
  • Performers are encouraged to post videos of previous performances on our social media platforms.
If you have additional questions, please email [email protected].

KeepItKinky Poetry, Open Mic, & Karaoke Night 11/9 8pm

November 6, 2018

Come out this Friday, November 9th at 8pm at the Rosalind Marie Hall in Livonia! Join us as we listen to poetry, singing, and more! Drinking games and lots of vendors for your adult pleasures! 21+ only, Mature Crowd! Let us plan your date night or girls night out!




If you have additional questions, please email [email protected].

Congratulations to our winner for the Poetry Slam....Native Child

November 12, 2018

Thank you to everyone that came out for our fist poetry slam! We all truly enjoyed both poets and it was a very close race! Native Child took home the cash prize!

Special shout out to Miz Luv for her amazing poetry. Thank you for sharing your gift with us! We can't wait to see what more you have in store for us!

Interested in signing up for our next Poetry Slam? Email us at [email protected]

Living a Grateful Life

November 27, 2018

It is amazing how well the universe works when we take the time to practice gratefulness. Focusing on the many wonderful things happening in our lives allows more great things to happen. We can all admit it is difficult at times to quiet the noise of negativity. Once we begin to train our minds in a new way, gratefulness will flow like water onto our many vision seeds. Journal the Journey so that you can reflect on the process and marvel at how you persisted to the other side.

Queen Kinky

Reflection: Extreme Networking @ The Wright

February 3, 2019

What a rich and fulfilling experience we had at the 2019 Extreme Networking & Vision Board Expo! Over 75 women joined together to connect, encourage, and inspire each other. We openly engaged in exploring not just our visions but the tools required to materialize them all! 

Our purpose for this event was to set the stage for YOUR best production of 2019 and to build a community of women who support one another. Standing on Marianne Wiliiamson's poem "Our Deepest Fear", our energy was matched and we propelled ready for positive progression! 

Living life in good vibrations has always been fruitful and confirming. Demanding things from both ourselves and the universe. Realizing that they are more like pedals to a bike, co-dependent. We believe rewards are given to those that activate their dreams.

This event's main purpose was completely filled. There were so many new connections and relationships birthed through this event! We have partnered with several attendees and have very promising collabs coming in the near future.

We must thank each of our Extreme Goal Digger Panelist for their insight and dedication to sisterhood. Special thank you to each volunteer, member of THEULN CREW, every attendee, vendor, and friend that dragged her girl to this event....we thank you!




Why am I low on energy? How can Charge!Detroit help?

July 31, 2019

People have so many expectations. We have internal and external expectations. Those we place on ourselves and those placed on us by others. The realm of realistic capability varies heavily depending on the intent, the skill, and the desire to perform. 

Roles tow their own expectation and because we love those who we serve, we tend to get burnt out. We run out of steam! The purpose of this retreat is to encourage women to take time and take care! We are bringing relaxation, rejuvenation, and refuel to one building. The Ultimate Ladies Night is taking over the Best Western Premier Hotel in Southfield, MI for an entire weekend. 

It's time for us to put an end to feeling guilty for wanting our own time and space! It's time for us to emerge ourselves in to a women-led, women-inspired program that is sure to leave your CHARGED! Registration is open 

It is our mission to deliver this weekend of relief to women globally. Want to have a Charge! Ultimate Girlfriend Weekend in your city? Email us at [email protected]

The Ultimate Ladies Night takes on TedxDetroit 2019

November 6, 2019

Innovation at it's finest. Being a member of the creative community definitely has it s perks. TedxDetroit was an absolute amazing experience. The Ultimate Ladies Night was invited to put our passion on display!

 We at THEULN have been actively working on new and unique experiences for our members and friends. My Lady Box is our newest innovation. A subscription box centered on Beauty, Empowerment & Self Care, My Lady Box delivers 4-6 new products to your door step each month! 

We received such a warm reception from the attendees at this year's TedxDetroit at The Masonic Temple. The feedback was positive and inspiring. Women and men both stopped by our exhibit to weigh in on the slightly illusive My Lady Box. Our goal is to ultimately have all the products in the box provided by women owned companies.

It is always our mission to bridge gaps and inspire others on their respective journeys. We are excited to highlight local women owned small businesses. Our next event is The Ultimate Small Business Saturday Pop Up Shop on November 30, 2019 at 3131 Arndt St. Detroit, Michigan. We are featuring 30 women owned small businesses. This event is FREE with a donation for our Homeless not Soulless Bags. Kids can take a picture with Santa, drink hot chocolate and decorate cookies while parents #shopsmall.

Thank you to every person that gave a kind word of encouragement, made a purchase or simply smiled as they walked by. We appreciate your thoughtfulness and support. 

The Ultimate Craft Studio Grand Opening

June, 24 2020

Excited doesn't even begin to describe how I feel. We have worked very hard and making multiple sacrifices to get to this moment. The Ultimate Craft Studio is home to The Ultimate Ladies Night and provides an event rental space for small to medium sized events. The Studio will also house the My Lady Box retail brand.

The Grand Opening celebration will take place on Saturday, July 18, 2020. The day is scheduled to be full of crafts, painting, vendors, food, drinks and more!